Brand Building: Living The Whole Picture with Jama Pantel
Brand Building: Living the Whole Picture is the go-to podcast for ambitious women ready to elevate their visibility, build authentic confidence, and become the face of their brand.
Hosted by luxury portrait photographer, author, educator, and former influencer Jama Pantel, this podcast delivers actionable strategies on personal branding, photography, and business growth—so you can step into the spotlight with clarity and purpose.
If you've ever felt unseen in your industry, struggled with confidence on camera, or hesitated to show up boldly, this is your roadmap to build a powerful presence that gets you noticed and respected.
Join Jama as she helps you build a brand that stands out, master your presence in photos and video, and turn your expertise into a magnetic business.
It’s time to stop playing small and start showing up like the leader you were meant to be.
Brand Building: Living The Whole Picture with Jama Pantel
You Were Never Too Much. You Were in the Wrong Room.
Episode Summary:
If you’ve ever been told you’re too loud, too confident, too ambitious, or just too much, this episode is for you.
Jama shares a powerful message about what it really means to take up space in a world that often asks women to shrink. Whether you’ve filtered your personality to fit in or stayed quiet to keep the peace, this conversation will help you reframe the narrative and reclaim your presence.
You were never too much. You were just in the wrong room.
Timestamps:
00:00 – What if you're not too much… just in the wrong room?
01:27 – The pressure to shrink: how women are taught to tone themselves down
01:52 – Jama’s personal story: working in politics, labels like “intimidating,” and learning to stop shrinking
02:43 – You weren’t the problem—it was their discomfort with your power
03:01 – Action steps to stop shrinking and start showing up fully
03:30 – A reminder: you don’t have to make yourself smaller to belong
03:55 – Share this with another woman who needs to hear it
Key Takeaways:
- Being labeled “too much” isn’t about you. It’s about how others react to your power.
- Playing small doesn’t protect you—it keeps you stuck.
- Real presence starts when you stop apologizing for who you are.
- You build authority by being fully yourself, not by being more palatable.
- The right rooms don’t ask you to shrink—they make space for your full self.
Keywords:
too much woman, strong women and visibility, being intimidating as a woman, playing small to be liked, taking up space confidently, high achieving women and leadership, confidence in male-dominated spaces, personal branding for women, women who feel unseen, why women shrink themselves
Call to Action:
If this episode felt like a deep exhale, send it to a friend who’s been shrinking herself to fit into rooms that don’t see her.
And if you haven’t already, leave a quick review. It helps this message reach more women who are ready to show up, speak up, and take up space, unapologetically.
You’re not too much. You’re just more than some people are ready for. And that’s okay.
If you've ever been told you're too loud, too ambitious, too emotional or too whatever, maybe you're not too much. Maybe you're just not in the right room. Hey, y'all, it's your podcast, bestie Jama again, and today we're going there. If you've ever been labeled too much, too talkative, too bold, too sensitive, too confident too, too whatever, this episode is for you, because what if you were never too anything? What if the problem wasn't you, but the room you were in or the person you were with? What if shrinking yourself to fit in has been costing you the very confidence you've been trying to build? Let's talk about how the fear of being too much is holding so many powerful women back from fully stepping into their voice, their visibility and their next level presence. I want you to think about the last time you made yourself smaller. Maybe you stayed quiet in a meeting, filtered your personality online or downplayed your success because you didn't want to brag. Was it because someone once told you you were too much? That's not a throwaway comment, y'all. That's a wound and it runs deep. For many of us, especially as women in male-dominated industries or high-performance spaces, we've been taught to be less than in order to be liked. Less
Jama Pantel:opinionated, less expressive, less successful, just enough to not make anyone uncomfortable. But let me tell you something I had to learn the hard way . Playing small doesn't keep you safe. It keeps you stuck. And you don't build a powerful presence by being digestible to everyone. You build it by being fully yourself, even when it's a lot. I've
Jama Pantel:been told I'm very independent, strong, confident, intimidating even, and I can't count how many times I've been told to smile more or that I look angry, like I have a resting you-know-what face, as some people like to put it. It used to really bother me. This came up constantly when I worked in politics. The expectation was to soften, to smile, to be agreeable, even when I had something important to say, and after a while it got old. But what I eventually realized was this I wasn't the problem. I didn't need to shrink or play smaller just to make other people more comfortable. They just weren't the right room for me or for the full version of me, and once I stopped trying to win over the wrong rooms or the wrong people or get a seat at the wrong tables, the right ones started showing up.
Jama Pantel:e've what I want you to take away from this. You were never too much. You were just in places where people benefit from your being smaller. Your voice was never the problem. It was their discomfort with your power. Let that sink in. Here are some actionable takeaways for you.
Jama Pantel:If you've been holding back, here's your next move. Stop apologizing for your presence, whether that's in a caption, a meeting or a pitch. Drop the disclaimers. Notice where you shrink. Get honest. Where are you playing small to stay liked? Find the right rooms the ones that don't ask you to shrink. The ones that celebrate you being too much. Because the right rooms won't ask you to be less. They'll make room for all of you.
Jama Pantel:You don't need to tone down. You don't need to make yourself smaller so other people feel more comfortable. You're not too much, you're not too loud, you're not too confident. You're just more than some people are ready for, and that's not your burden to carry. So if no one's told you lately, let me say it you were never the problem. You were the proof that something bigger was possible. Keep being you.
Jama Pantel:If this episode felt like a deep exhale, share it with someone else who's been playing small in rooms that don't see her and leave me a quick review. It helps this show reach more women who are ready to take up space unapologetically. Until next time, keep living the whole picture.
